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Signal #3. He has reason to be in regular contact with an ex-wife or girlfriend but (by either choice or circumstance) you're excluded from most of his interactions with this person.
This is a big one. If he has children, property, business, etc. from a prior marriage or relationship, this constitutes reason to be in contact with an ex-whatever. Beware the *old and familiar* syndrome. Sometimes you'd rather not be involved when he's dealing with his ex, but in most regards, that makes it quite easy for him to re-ignite a whole other life with that person. Take note: this sign could also be present with his or YOUR own best friend, YOUR own sister, YOUR own mother, YOUR own daughter, etc. You'd be surprised what private investigators see in their line of work! Don't be a fool. |
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As if women were these meek, helpless creatures with superior morals and values who didn’t even POSSESS selfish traits.
The effect of all this has been that MEN today have been turned into ABSOLUTE PATHETICALLY EASY TARGETS FOR WOMEN TO USE FOR SHOOTING PRACTICE. Men feel guilty about being MEN. They feel because of their size and strength, they must kiss up to women and be extra careful not to accidentally hurt their feelings. Meanwhile, most women have ZERO psychological issues with SHOOTING DOWN MEN at clubs etc, especially when these guys are nice. And laughing and making fun of him while the girls adjust their make up in the bar/club bathroom. I observe this stuff at bars all the time. Sometimes when I see it happen, I just want to SHOUT OUT LOUD to all the guys, “STOP KISSING UP TO ALL THESE WOMEN! If not for yourself, then do it for the sake of all mankind!” |
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Now in those days I didn't realize how many signals she was giving me, and how easily I could have gotten her number or probably even an instant date with her right then. But I did learn something massive: FORGET TRYING WITH WOMEN. All that trying makes you very *un-natural* and worst of all, you act like you are in a race, a competition to try to win her attention.
Your words come out like speeding bullets, your expression looks tense, you seem like a pathetic used car salesman giving a high powered pitch at 10,000 words per minute. |
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